Building Your New Self Vision
Establish Positive Boundaries
that your Life Track, the path of your personal probability, is like a
river flowing from its source to the sea. To define your path so that
you can flow effortlessly along it and continue to go easily in the
correct direction you want, you need to have boundaries. Not limits.
Limits go with being a victim, bound by others and the collective
mainstream reality. Boundaries are self-chosen, and defined with your
unique language. They are selected by an empowered, free, loving self
who trusts his or her divine plan.
I recommend setting up a new
and grander sense of order, a foundation upon which you can attach the
pieces floating in the Light Chaos and begin building your New Life.
Build your Principles and new Sense of Order
boundaries are what guide your choices. When you have a decision
(strategy) to determine, or a choice (perspective) to make, what is
your reference point in making it?
One of my principles is
empowerment. I make my choices/decisions based on whether or not they
empower me or disempower me. Your definition of your principle concept
word is how it plays out in your life. For example, I also support
another person’s empowerment as correct for them. If there is any
conflict between me and another person, I will do what I need to do to
stand up for myself consciously and deliberately seek a win-win that is
empowering for both of us. That way, my empowerment is not about having
a “power-over” another person but BEING empowered to make my life the
way I want it to be.
If you choose love as a principle, you’ll
make all your decisions/choices based on what is more loving for you.
Now you have to have a good working definition of love for yourself or
you can fall into one of society’s unconscious/subconscious
definitions, such as “love is pain” that means you must give your
life’s joys away to another. Other definitions of love can be that love
means sacrifice, love means putting up with anything the beloved does
to you, etc. Those examples are from a Lesser Self’s definition of love
you probably had some years ago. But what if love for you is being good
to yourself, caring about and for you, and thus caring and being good
to others by extension? If being good to others requires that you not
be good to yourself, it won’t work.
Other principles that some
people use can be manipulative. This is especially true if the
principle is getting more money. In that case, the person would be an
opportunist, ready to respond to any circumstance with the question,
“is there an opportunity for getting money here?” Once they see the
money path, they will make their action plans. These people may be
ruthless and uncaring in their quest for that all-important money.
may put belonging and safety together as one, so that if they find that
they disagree with their peer group, they will fear conflict and
rejection from the group. They may feel they cannot survive outside of
the group, and they yearn to belong so much that they’ll change their
mind right away and choose whatever their peer group believes so as to
feel safe within the group. As you suspect, using these types of
principles do not reinforce your Greater Self but your Lesser Self!
Over time, they can truly mess you up!
So seek to make your principles ones that your Greater Self uses.
Discover More about your Greater Self
Christians ask themselves at the time of choice, “What would Jesus do?”
This is essentially the same thing, except we’re talking about your
Greater Self. You see, you might be able to imagine what Jesus would do
in a given situation. We’re not talking mundane actions like what to do
politically or in the investment portfolio if you have one. But you
see, while you may have an idea what Jesus would do, there is a very
real risk that you wouldn’t know WHY Jesus would do that action.
since you aren’t walking around with Jesus and watching him in action,
you don’t know him. You can make assumptions, based on the stories in
the New Testament, but that’s all they are - assumptions. For all you
know emotionally, the Jesus a minister talks about is a fictional,
made-up idealized character. The minister assumes or pretends to know
how Jesus would follow the rules and guidelines, not that they aren’t
noble in many ways. But making these assumptions can be misconceptions
if your interpretation of the bible stories are distorted in any way.
not saying that there aren’t some juicy spiritual truths in there. But
it’s regular human beings interpreting them! But if you are working to
discover more about the divine being within YOU, then imagining your
Greater Self can draw out of your subconscious and unconscious minds a
deep knowing of who you and this Greater Self actually are.
you leave out all the judgments, weaknesses, and negative stuff you may
hold about yourself (or over yourself, demanding redemption), you can
energetically tune into a “cleaner” and less contaminated idea of you.
Then your choices won’t be what you “should” do and be, but what is
truly in YOUR own highest truth and good.
And your Greater Self
also has consciousness, there in the Future. Do you remember how I
pointed out to you that your Future is actually MORE real than your
present you? The higher the consciousness you are, the more real you
are. So aiming for your own higher consciousness is possibly the best
choice you can make.
Choose your Principles
your principles now, based on the highest vibration of you, with the
highest priority and significance for you and your Greater Self in the
Future. This gives you ample room to grow and thrive, spiritually. And
it also becomes a foundation for your New Vision of you being developed
at this time.
So what is truly important to you? I suggest you
choose two or three principles for your life’s guidelines. There are
many concepts to choose from, and they are all what many call “fat
words.” Fat words are philosophical words that have different, subtle
contexts and meanings depending on how you define them and imagine them
applied in your life.
I do not recommend that you choose
safety or security, or money opportunities as principles, since those
will tend to align you to a fear-based reality rather than a love-based
one. Also, I suggest not choosing a principle that is part of an
extreme duality situation, i.e. the Light. Choosing what is Light to
you always will tend to be “against” the Darkness, or opposed to it.
Same with the concepts of Truth, Good, and Right. There are so many
interpretations of these and most are distorted and twisted, so using
them can throw you way off base.
people tend to sacrifice their greatness, not to mention their power
and happiness, when they make choices based on limited fear and dualism
please refrain from making decisions based only on what your inner
voices say. I’ve known quite a few people who have followed their inner
voices, thinking them spirit guides, and crashed into illnesses,
poverty, and loneliness. Then, feeling betrayed by the Divine, they
left their spiritual path.
Your negative ego can totally mimic the energies and authority of your guides, Higher Self, and/or angels.
you are educated metaphysically enough to be able to identify ego
patterns in your thinking and intuition, don’t rely on your “inner
guidance.” Your guides are here to help YOU, and they are waiting for
YOU to take the lead. This is a Free Will Universe. They are not here
to lead you or conscript you in their programs. It’s YOU who has to
make the decisions based on your character and principles, and the
Greater Self-image you choose to have. Your ego is a scam artist. Don’t
fall for it!
Here are a few useful concepts or words you can use for principles. Remember, don’t choose more than 2 or 3. Don’t complicate things! Your principles may or may not all be on this list.
empowerment/personal power, love, trust in the Divine Plan, honesty,
creativity, flow, magic, spiritual, caringness, connection to the
Divine, joy, magicalness, beauty, will (truer and higher than what you
have now), inner knowing, value, kindness, acceptance,
you make decisions, choose new pathways, or take actions, make them in
alignment with and accordance to these principles you have selected as
most important and meaningful to you. Do they feel “right” for you? Are
they important enough and are you willing enough to live according to
them? If so, you are well on your way to creating your Dream Future!
Rewrite your Story and Craft a New Vision of YOU
lot has been said about changing your old story. You may have read some
of the several books out about this, or attended seminars on this
topic. Even if you haven’t, you can probably acknowledge that in your
past, you held a distinctly lesser image of yourself, and have judged
yourself, made assumptions about your worth (or lack thereof), or seen
yourself through a dark filter of insecurity, cynicism, or pain. You
also have experienced repetitive patterns of limitation and challenge
that, despite your seeming best efforts catch you over and over again
and trap you within them. These patterns become your old sad story, and
out of them you develop your limiting beliefs.
you may have found love relationships challenging. They all start out
the same way. Both of you are excited about each other, but then they
quickly derail after the first argument reveals that your mate is only
thinking of him or herself and willing to manipulate you any way he or
she can to get what is wanted. Then you pull back. You detach yourself
emotionally from your partner or else you demand that your partner be
present for you and fulfill your agenda. Your partner pulls back and
blames you for making his or her life miserable, and you fight each
other. No one wins. This begins to be the common pattern every day
until in desperation, you leave the relationship. After you separate,
you kick yourself that you didn’t do more, do better, or you continue
to blame your ex-partner, consider him or her evil and a bad person, or
whatever. After a long time ruminating on what went wrong, you
rationalize yourself to be okay, the innocent one, and decide to
Eventually, after a few of these experiences that are
remarkable similar with very different individuals, you decide that
“men (or women) can’t be trusted,” “it’s better to be alone than go
through the pain,” or “you just don’t have what it takes to have a good
relationship – there’s something obviously wrong with how you pick your
partners or how you develop or build a relationship.”
you see the pattern and own it as normal for you, you begin to expect
it. You approach relationships with a lot of caution and tend not to
let yourself open up or get involved quickly. You look into your
partner’s life suspiciously, looking for the signal that he or she will
start doing that selfish or evil thing again. Or you demand more
loyalty and openness from your partner. No matter what you seem to do
as your new strategy, you end up going down the same path. This
reinforces the beliefs you have made about you and relationships.
this description of a pattern sound familiar to you? You may not have
this exact pattern, but looking at your life, where do you find a
pattern that limits you over and over again, just as you seem to be
getting somewhere in your life? This pattern is anchored into your
subconscious mind along with the image you hold of yourself, and the
limitations you feel that you normally and naturally have.
See Your Self-Image, both Light and Dark
you know that if you only hold dark images of yourself and/or of
others, that it’s not going to work for you in creating your Dream
Future. Nor will it help the world. As you are a remedy for the world,
you need to be free of your old preconceptions, assumptions, and
limited ideas about yourself. When you focus on your limits, you are
focused on your Lesser Self, the small you.
You could also have
constructed a totally positive, fantastic image of yourself, but if you
look at your life, you can see that there’s a conflict between the
fantastic-ness of that image and the level of joy, happiness, and
success you are enjoying in your life. There still are “holes” in your
happiness – some area that is not working.
Now it’s good to
hold positive ideas of yourself, but they need to be really you, not
the success images of your culture! If you only hold positive images of
yourself, you’ve been hooked by your negative ego facade. You know this
one. It’s the “I’m cool and sophisticated” fašade you put on in
adolescence as protection from humiliation and ridicule.
if you don’t have any negatives at all about yourself, or you deny all
negative possibilities about yourself to others, it only means you
simply have stuffed them deep down into your dark shadow. The Dark
Shadow is in the Unconscious Mind – very deep. But putting them “out of
sight and out of mind” only refers to your conscious mind. Your story
line and patterns are a program that keep running no matter what your
conscious mind says.
You want to look at your story and find the
good and the bad, the light and the dark. You are all, everything. The
ideal of perfection is only additional pressure on you to ignore the
dark and embrace the light. But you see, being all light doesn’t work.
You need to be REAL.
You need to accept yourself as you are,
light and dark. And you need to forgive yourself for anything dark that
you still feel is dragging on you and keeping you from becoming the
spiritual radiance that you actually are or doing the Mission your Soul
has called you to.
Stop Identifying with your Old Story
you want to do, is to release your old, sad story – the story of your
Lesser Self going back years. Your story holds your beliefs,
assumptions, and judgments (both positive and negative) about you, your
capability for happiness, love, success, and fulfillment of all your
Since you build up your stories over time to explain why
difficult or sabotaging things happened, or why you were successful,
you are building your self-image. When you face new options in your
life, you assess whether or not you can actually work with these
circumstances. How confident are you? Well, you will look at your old
story and see if you know how to be successful and confident in a
similar circumstance. This uses your Old, Sad Story and shrinks you
back into your Lesser Self.
Don’t identify with the self you were, even if that self is only last year. It’s a
self-image to rely on when you are stressed and don’t know what to do,
what choices to make, or what direction to go. In the past when you
were very young, you had to make choices for yourself blindly, hoping
that they would work. You had no experience at that time to know if
your choices and decisions and life direction would work, but you had
to make them.
But you see, those old choices and decisions were
part of who you were, and they were the ones that established the
patterns, limitations, and small self-image of you (or the negative ego
image/fašade of you). If you still identify with your teen self or
child self emotionally, and with those choices made then, you will be a
victim of life indefinitely. You want to be the powerful reality
creator you are and to dream into being the you that is a spiritual
Think about it. Your life in your youth was taken up
with issues on how to cope with peers, how to make choices, had to
handle your family dramas, how to compete, and on and on. Where was the
freedom to discover who you truly were? Who did you think you had to be
in order to survive?
My choice as a teen was to detach from
everyone and hide. I denied my feelings and pretended I didn’t have
any. I focused on building my skills in music and art, hoping I could
somehow make it in either field. But all the stress went deep down into
me, creating a story of illness, victimhood, and stifling limitations
that blocked my dreams. I suspect a lot of people have similar themes.
today, I’m no longer a victim. I acknowledge that I am a powerful
being, luminous and caring. But unacknowledged pieces of that victim
story and its dark, intense emotional pain still remains, embedded deep
within my psyche and my body today. I am making it conscious, and now
that I see it for what it is, I can use this third phase of the Siriun
year to go deep within and find a new Vision for myself AND for my
What makes this year different is that creating the new
story can be way easier and more powerful and impactful than ever. We
are all stepping into our Destinies this year, so choosing a new script
is extremely vital! You and I have the optimal lifetime opportunity to
craft a new story for mind and body. Woohoo!
Recognize the Old Story and your Compensations
I ask you, think back to your puberty days, your adolescence. Where did
you experience shame, suffering, and emotional rejection? What did you
choose to do and be after that? What was your compensation strategy?
Did you hide away and protect yourself with “armoring?” Did you become
the class clown, always being funny with self-deprecating humor? Did
you step into a fašade of perfection, confidence, and being right? Did
you attack others or bully? Did you become studious or develop a skill
that could make you money and insure your independence?
certainly are many more options that what I suggest in the above
questions. So what were yours? And how did you see yourself then? Did
you take the judgments of others into yourself? Did you fight? Did you
run away? What did you think you had to do with your body and your life
Discover The Purpose of all that Suffering
now look at all the suffering and struggle you have done to date. What
good did that do for you? Be the devil’s advocate here and find the
positive purpose of your suffering. Using myself as an example, since I
took everything into my body and emotions, I got into the healing arts
for my body and became a psychologist to handle my emotions. I wanted
to feel good, be happy, regain my energy, and have a good constitution
again like I had as a child before the shame and pain descended upon me
I got into healing through diet, supplements,
herbs, energy healing, meditations, and vibrational resonances (through
various frequency emitting gizmos). Most importantly, I learned how to
process and heal my emotions, including shame. You see, emotions,
beliefs, attitudes, and self-image are all stuck in the body and can
All of these avenues improved me, but I never
got “there” to total physical, emotional and mental health. Only now,
am I understanding why. First, I had to accept that my shame and
shutdown was a gift given to me so that I could find my life direction
that was true for me. I began to see how my life unfolded in new and
different ways as I learned how to heal myself and set me on a
spiritual path that I am still on. In others words, suffering and its
consequences gave me my life direction. I accept that now. Along the
way, I have experienced much magic and many miracles. Life is getting
better and better.
So what has your adolescent suffering brought
you, positively? Here’s an example. I had a friend back in Florida who
loved to dance and was intending to become a professional dancer. In
her adolescence, however, she developed a severe scoliosis and had to
have surgery. Two or three of her spinal vertebrae were fused, and her
dancing days ended. While she was devastated, this made her seek
another outlet for her life force, another direction. After a few years
of wandering around looking for a focus, she found it in marriage and
being a mom. Then she began to work on expressing herself in art.
husband offers another example. As a child, he was always sickly and
weak. He had polio at 2 and after that, he became a mother’s boy,
coddled and protected by her against his domineering father who wanted
him to be a tough and strong man. In childhood, he was picked on and
beaten up a lot. He had a lot of shame about his weaknesses. At 11, he
got TB and spent some time in a sanitarium in the mountains.
one point, he got tired of always being the one picked on, the weak
sickly one, and the mamma’s boy. So he made a decision to be healthy.
First, he stopped himself from crying but deliberately falling on his
nose, breaking it. This worked. His crying stopped. Then he took the
“primal” cure of gnawing on bones and going to local quarry to slam
rocks and break them. Within a couple of years, he began growing tall
and no longer succumbed to every virus that came around. He was healthy
now. And he has remained healthy to this day. When I get sick from
toxic air pollution, he feels better and better, even though he is
breathing the same air. The contrast is amazing!
sessions, as I listen in, Galexis has been recently sharing this piece
about puberty and The Choice of Story. I recognize that I still, in my
body, harbor feelings of victimhood to my environment and am changing
my story, creating a new Vision for my Future. You know, in previous
newsletters, I have spoken about my Future Self. She is quite buff,
strong and healthy. She is no longer bothered by toxins in the
atmosphere. She sleeps well, has a great digestion, and is off on
adventures regularly. I’m going in her direction now.
see positive personal health coming. I hope you can too. No matter what
area of your life is your “Commission of Challenge,” whether it’s about
money, love, or health, the secret to healing your story and getting a
new one is to reverse the choice you made way back in your adolescence
as you reeled from the impact of puberty on your life.
Choose Your New Story
New Story has to be one of choice. There are several factors that need
to be in it, no matter what the details are. Here’s a list of what I
think can NOT be in your New Life Story or part of your Personal Vision
or Global Mission, or even your career and Destiny paths.
Victim consciousness, always at the mercy of anything that comes along
Resentments and bitterness, with desire for revenge or punishment
Feeling powerless with the environment (pollution, politics, and relationships)
Fear and anxiety, with safety/security as principles
Feeling separate from others, separate from love, and from life’s flow
Always worrying about money, the safety of your family, and any other worry
yourself to fulfill duties and obligations, carrying burdens, and in
general being a slave to others’ interests and not your own
The Ego need to be better than others and show them how to do it right
The need to control things and people to make reality consistent and orderly
Shift the Relationship Between You and Your Environment as well as Your World
in our culture is equated with lots of money, and protection for us and
our loved ones. However, we live in the world. Ask yourself, “Can you
feel safe with such a collective, consensus, societal perspective going
In this third phase of the Siriun year, you and I have the
opportunity to break this embedded training in our bodies where on a
subconscious level, we anticipate, fear, and worry that negative events
will happen while at the same time, we hope and pray for positive
circumstances to come our way.
With a conflict between the
conscious mind and the subconscious and unconscious minds, you can’t
trust yourself in your relationship, feel secure in your money
manifestation, or that your body will flourish in health for several
more years. A tragedy could happen any moment!
Now, you can’t
just go and hide your head in the sand like the proverbial ostrich. But
you can initiate the process of healing your training and changing your
perception of your world. If you want to have that Dream Future, then
you’ll have to lay a track or path leading to it. And living in a
fear-based reality, a dangerous reality, will take you down the
Nightmare or Mediocre Paths.
Change Your Perception, Change Your Story, Change your Reality
your Future is all about determining a Life Track that heads towards
happiness, joy, love, freedom, fulfillment, and celebration. Once you
set your foot on that Path, you will experience more magic and
miracles. You will begin to see that reality isn’t a set-in-stone kind
of thing but something flexible and fluid that you can play with and
create for you, your loved ones and your world.
Now of course,
you won’t be able to easily manifest your Ideal Future. That Future is
your world’s change too. You are not up to that part yet. But the self
that you are in that Ideal Future holds a very high frequency you can
grab onto now. And when you grab it and move towards that Greater Self,
you can count on the Universe becoming more visibly supportive of you,
and your life will have more joy and laughter in it – more lightness,
more healing, more freedom!
The Steps to Changing from the Old Story to the New Story
Here is what we are going to do here to turn the Old Story around.
Identify and release the old story
Create a new story that’s more in alignment with who you are
Sync it up with the Near Future You and your Ideal (Dream) Future
1. Recognize your Story Orientation
first of all, you need to let go of the part of your Old Story that
assumes that limiting and difficult things are just natural to you and
will probably recur in the future, but you hope that you can do some
strategies to ward it off. This orientation is embedded in the culture,
the consensus mainstream reality.
2. Identify and choose to Let go of your strategies and compensations
to this basic collectively held belief. You want to feel that all is
well, okay, and manageable, and that all will be well at some
indefinable time in the future. I give you a few common strategy
examples so that you can see what you are doing here.
you assume that if you just hold your affirmations in mind, or repeat
platitudes, that you can move forward this time and succeed. (Spoiler
alert; Unless your story is changed, you will not succeed.)
Then sometimes, you may give up seeking what you want and turn to
distractions, socializing, sex, and watching games and TV to entertain
you. These can substitute for fun and you can throw away time doing
them. A good example is social media where you can get involved in
other peoples’ lives or watch funny videos and forget about what’s
Another approach is to go further into avoidance and distractions,
seeking out drugs (recreational as well as pharmaceutical scripts) to
keep up the illusion of happiness. Or you can try actual physical
escape by travelling to an exotic, cheap place and become a beach bum.
Then there are also computer games where you have your avatar and you
create your virtual world and participate in games and contests
These are just some major strategies. Minor
ones can involve getting over-involved in your family members’ lives,
trying to control people at work or home, or retreating to the library
to study and write a novel that never actually can get written.
of these approaches works all that well as long as our physical bodies
hold the belief that reality is dangerous, we could be attacked by
anyone we meet, we could suffer loss and feel shock and grief any day
now, we could be shamed and humiliated by others, we could be exiled
from our community, that we are powerless, and we don’t have the
resources we need to handle things. It’s worsened if the body and
psyche hold that we don’t deserve anything better than what we’ve had
in the past. This keeps us in a box of limitation to our Lesser Self,
as I mentioned months ago.
When our bodies perceive danger, we
experience the “fight or flight” phenomenon, or stress. For most of us
sadly, we are in a constant state of apprehension about danger. This
goes on underneath the conscious mind so we are often unaware of the
continuing mantra of fear.
We need a new dream, that of safety
in the world. It doesn’t exist yet in the politically tough harsh and
violent world we see going on today. But nothing can manifest unless
it’s imagined, and you are the one who needs to imagine it!
3. Move into the process.
Have your notebook and pen, or write on your keyboard as you think
about these things and imagine in your mind how to do this. There is no
right or wrong way to do this. Make it up. Start writing stuff down
that occurs to you from the first two steps and then add what else you
find as you continue. Be prepared to feel and imagine.
4. Change your Relationship with your World
cannot change your reality until you change your relationship with the
collective, with the Collective Unconscious, as CG Jung discussed, or
with the consensus mainstream reality you live in. You have to change
your relationship with your reality so that your reality becomes safe,
loving, magical, supportive, friendly, and fun. Enough of that
5. Flip the Negatives to Positives
during this time of chaos, your reality is floating around in pieces.
There are positive and happy pieces and there are sad and unpleasant
pieces. Your job as a visionary human being, moving towards your Dream
Future, is to put together the positive pieces you want into a tapestry
of the life you want.
Take the list of negatives I said should
NOT be in your New Story. What are the positive counterparts to each
one of those in YOUR life?
6. What is your Identity?
look at who you have seen yourself to be – your identity. What is your
identity with relationships? Are you the one who gives in all the time?
about your identity in your network of friends and community? Are you a
leader, a follower, a complainer, or do you tend to be a loner off on
Who are you in your work? An authority? A helper
person? Who are you with business associates? With clients? With your
peers at conferences?
Who are you with your parents, or your
children? With your vehicle, car or truck? Are you the smart one in
your family? The odd one? How do you relate to your body? Your diet?
your stories and patterns everywhere in your life. Perceive how you
relate to your reality in the different areas of your life. Write down
a succinct essence of each one of these. Make a list. Then whatever
area is constricted and your image limited (NOT who you want to be if
you felt safe and free), imagine it healed. What is the new you with
all these different people and things? Make up new identities in all
the areas of your life.
7. Create a New Perception and Belief about your Reality
start imagining! You have to imagine something before it can possibly
become real. Your Future depends on you imagining either a positive or
a negative outcome. For some of you, negative outcomes are the norm, so
this technique will make a huge difference for you if you follow
through on it.
Imagine the positives I suggested above. What if
your reality were safe? Loving? Magical with great positive
synchronicities? A momentum of fun and joy? Friendly, even with
strangers? Supportive no matter what? Start imagining. Now you will
notice that your body responds to this. It may feel stressed, or it
could feel happy and elated.
So go into more detail. Don’t fall
for the “winning the lottery” fantasy that is a two-dimensional reality
of feeling safe and secure as you spend money and not much else. No
more safety and security concerns. Make safety and plenty of happiness
a “given.” Make your imagination as deep and real and detailed as
possible so that you feel an uptick in your vibratory energy, a higher
Look at your life. Have you ever NOT been supported by
your reality, even if it was at the last minute? Has your ass ever NOT
been saved? Has there ever been a place where there was absolutely no
choice and no new information and nothing you could do, since you’ve
been an adult?
Your reality DOES support you. Look at your
failures. Didn’t they shift you into a new direction that ultimately
was better and more suited for you? So ask and seek for when your
Universe did NOT save your ass or support you.
If you don’t
think the Universe is supportive of you, then maybe you and the
Universe need to have a tete-a-tete. You need to understand that it’s
YOUR choices you made and YOUR judgment on the outcome and the
resulting frustration, martyrhood, anger, and such that is keeping your
good reality on hold. Forgive yourself and while you’re at it, forgive
your Universe, your reality. Here you had thought it had abandoned you,
when it was actually you abandoning yourself!
If you realize
that yes, all these twists and turns on the path have always led to
something new that you needed to pay attention to or that was more in
alignment with who you are, then practice believing and expecting to
have a bright and happier future, regardless of what suffering you have
been through or are currently experiencing.
Even if you are in
the midst of grief and loss, you can have a better future. In fact,
it’s imperative that you move forward, learning and healing to become
more focused on you and perhaps more focused on others out there in the
world – sending more love out to them and receiving more love from your
8. Expect the Positive Future
though it doesn’t look like there is any possible way of getting there
from here, remember, this is magic. You are actually dreaming yourself.
Who is the you in that optimal future – the happy, joyous, empowered,
free, loving and being loved one, and the one for whom wonders and
miracles come to.
Keep expecting. Make it up if you doubt
yourself, or fall into fear. Remind yourself that you are making this
up in your imagination which is MORE REAL than you know at the moment.
Your imagination is your connection to the Divine via the 5th Dimension.
Your Ego Voice – Destroyer of Expectation
ego is not wanting you to be happy and fulfilled. It’s still trying to
get you to be the achiever, the fittest, the best, the top dog/Lord of
the Universe even though you’ve known since your 20’s that just ain’t
gonna happen. So it will send you thoughts of cynicism – sneering,
“yeah, right. You’re in LA LA Land, out to lunch, crazy and stupid.
Come back to earth. It’s tough here. It’s a dog-eat-dog world and you
gotta fight for your place in the sun. Nothing’s going to change!”
know that it will be hard to resist all the naysaying in your mind
talk, or the naysaying from friends and family members should you even
dare mention your Visionary Project with them. You will be tempted to
fall into Self-Doubt and Fear, as well as Anxiety. Creating with your
imagination may seem futile, so you feel very very tired and stop doing
anything. After all, what’s the use? You get slightly depressed,
lacking motivation, and lethargic.
The ego will get you with
the idea that you can earn this great future by working hard at it. All
this does is frustrate you, and make you way too serious about getting
to the Future you want. But you could fall into the energy of
entitlement. “Hey, I’ve worked so hard and done so much, I should be
feeling more powerful now. I should be seeing more magic in my life
9. Hone in on the New Vision of You
are you in this Future? Back in August 2017, I discussed the Ideal
Future and the near Future Self (1 – 2 years into the future). I
suggested that you pay attention mostly to who you are being, what you
are feeling, and the resonance you are radiating. What I suggest now,
is to add more detail to that.
So, let’s start with the Ideal
Future that gives your mind and heart the direction to go in. As
before, start with the self-image, the Greater You who is manifesting
that grand self and life in the Ideal Future down the road. Who are
you? What do you think, feel, and believe about yourself?
you feel the essence, the energy, the resonance you hold, then and only
then, imagine how your external reality, i.e. your environment of
people, nature, work and play places, family and friends, as well as
clean air/water/food all reflect that your reality is loving and
supportive. Everyone is friendly. You feel safe and loved in that
It is safe to be you, to feel and express yourself
honestly and fully, to go anywhere at any time with anyone. Safe.
Loved. Free. Empowered to make the choices that are correct for you
without interference. You receive respect and caring from others, no
matter what you choose to do and be (as long as you are authentic). You
can relax, really relax and rest. You can dream and imagine. Life is
And while this may seem absolutely unbelievable
(which it is right now), notice the conflict between this environment
that supports you and the old belief that the world is a tough,
dog-eat-dog world, and so unsafe, you have to be careful what you do,
say, and feel to survive.
Don’t let yourself get sucked into
the collective B.S. Instead, choose to hold the amazingly loved and
free resonance in the Ideal Future as truer for YOU.
have any difficulty with this, then be aware of the energies and
vibrations of what is NOT there, i.e. manipulative game-playing,
dominating/controlling/bullying, ruthless competition, scamming,
violence and violation, hate and judgment, etc. You can build up the
positive energies by imagining what the opposite of each one of these
dark energies would be. Game-playing, for example, could be honesty and
integrity. What would that feel like? Do this for the whole list and
you will soon be feeling pretty light!
Remember, you are
imagining what you are actually doing in that Ideal Future. You are
being with others who are loving and supportive, fun and joyous. Sense
your belonging to a community that accepts you and with whom you share
love and visions/dreams.
Get a little more graphic with it too.
In my Ideal Future, I see that robots essentially do all the hard work.
Since I imagined this last August, I read an article in Bloomberg
magazine on how AI (Artificial Intelligence) is coming along and how
inventors have even created robots who harvest vegetables, fruits, and
nuts! There are already working models!
You may find some
details in your Ideal Future that seem totally improbable, but don’t
deny them. Allow them and discover what they say about who you are and
what you are creating and co-creating with others and the Divine. In my
scenario, people were freed up to do projects of creativity, growing
food for the love of it in small plots, sharing resources with their
families and their community, enjoying their pets and communicating
telepathically with the pets as well as with wild animals, and of
course enjoying pristine nature, now restored and thriving. There is an
overall sense of BALANCE and PEACE.
So what’s YOUR Dream Future?
Even though an Ideal will never become Real, your Dream Future will
hold pieces of the Ideal for YOU. So what will it be? And who will you
be? See your Future You, healthy, happy, strong, creative, enjoying,
celebrating, loving, laughing, playing, working, etc. Hold that picture
in your mind every day for a short while so that your Subconscious and
Unconscious Minds can register that and keep you on the Dream Track to
10. Align yourself with your Future and get on Track
visualize yourself being the person you are now, looking down a shining
path to the Future You standing there 20 or so feet away. This is the
you from 2 years in the Future and beyond your 2-year Future Self in
the distance (maybe 50 feet), you see your Ideal Future Self standing
Feel the love radiating to you from your 2-year Future
Self. It’s similar to what you may feel with your Inner Child Self if
you’ve ever done that work, except that now you’re the younger self and
receiving the love.
Walk on the path towards your 2-year
Future and go up to him or her. Let yourself be embraced and then sink
into those arms. Feel the love, the lightness, the joy, the healing
energies, the clarity, the resonance, the amazing auric field of this
loving, free, empowered being who leans on reality to provide a good
life for him/her. These are the intangibles. Feel them. Imagine them.
Soak them into you.
Now step into this Future Self and feel the exhileration, the creativity, the flow of the Divine energies. Imagine all of this.
you as the Future You turns to face your Ideal Future Self. Walk
towards that figure standing there and do the same as you just did.
Hug, feel the lightness, the power, the magnificence, the joy, the
gratitude, the balance and healing, the peace, etc. Make it up and
intensify it as much as you can.
Now move into that Future You,
living in that Ideal and wondrous world. All is well. This combined you
now looks back at the form of your 2-year Future You, standing in that
time/space location. You send a golden light to that one, that becomes
a golden path linking you the Ideal and you the 2-year Future.
the current you, inside that Ideal You, along with the 2-year Future
you, step forth out of the Ideal and together walk that golden path
back to the 2-year Future. You both step into the 2-year Future form,
bringing the golden light of the Ideal into that timing and location
(4th Dimension). You turn to see the Current You’s form standing in
your current time and space location.
Now only the Current You
walks out of the 2-year Future You on a golden path that has been
established between the Ideal you and the Current You. You walk back to
the present time, entering your Current you form. Turn around and see
your 2-year Future You and beyond him/her, your Ideal Future, both of
which are radiating a glorious light. From you to your Ideal You is a
golden path, the Life Track leading to your Dream Future. You have now
aligned yourself to your golden (Destiny) futures.
this process from step 1 to 10 a few times until you can feel totally
connected to your Ideal Future. And you can, when you go to bed at
night, call in your two Future Selves and let them love and hold you.
You may have some magical dreams that will give you additional insights
into your Path ahead.
Now I know all of this seems very
complicated, and it can be. It took me years to learn all the steps of
this the first time, but there is a spiritual dispensation now and time
has sped up. Evolution is accelerating. You don’t have to spend years
discovering these pieces. I’ve laid them out here for you.
wishing for you to find the Future You of your Dreams and to get onto
that Dream Track and step into your Golden Destiny! That’s what this
time period is all about – this third phase of the Siriun year.
Even greater things lie ahead. I’ll see you there!
Love and light,
This article written by
Ginger Metraux, Ph.D.
"The Mystic Professor"
(c) 2017-2018, Ginger Metraux and Giniel, Inc., Encino, CA, USA